My 3 Not So Nice Traits

So for #24 of Blog Every Day In May is to share:

Your top 3 worst traits

Messy= I try my best as I can, but my mother told me I was messy so I am still messy. When I lived at home with her I kept my bedroom tidy and the house spotless every weekend. The only thing I wouldn’t tidy up were my books – they just spread out even when I don’t want them to. As a married woman and mother of a toddler, I am messy because sometimes I’m just too tired or busy with other important things to clean up. Also I hope to fit into my pre-pregnancy clothes so I keep them for too long and they take space. But when I clean up everything looks like a photo from a glossy magazine {or nearly} and I get upset if it’s not kept in that way by my loved ones.

Never on Time= 80% of the time I am late for appointments. I am a believer of the fashionable late motto. I don’t like to be too early because I look awkward when I am waiting and I don’t have anything to read or do. The other day AMI said “I believe you will be late even for your own funeral.” Of course I laughed because I would like to be very late for my own funeral {hopefully I will be parting somewhere else}.

Touchy= I write this because my younger brother tells me so. I can explain. I don’t like rudeness or rude jokes. He knows this and that’s the first thing he does to annoy me. So I get offended by this very easily. Also my girlfriends used to affectionately call me “stupidina” {silly little girl}, I hated it. Not to stereotype but, I once read an article in which a Ghanaian singer says that Ghanaian people can be very touchy when it comes to certain words. For instance the word silly is offensive to me because it derives from stupid so if someone tells me silly even if they are joking I become a little touchy.

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What are your top 3 worst traits?

Project Milf Week 16 + Wisdoms School Won’t Teach You…

Today I am combing Project Milf and Blog Everyday In May in one post. But before I start, I want to give an update to week 15 of Project Milf

FITNESS/HEALTH

I am doing more yoga and sleeping at decent hours. I am really going downhill regarding eating healthy. I need to do more smoothies filled with veggies. 

FUND RAISING

Nothing to report this week {getting bored about that}

NOVEL

I have to send it to the professional editor. In the meanwhile, yesterday I sat in front of the computer and just wrote the flashed of episodes from my past {I sound so old, not ‘just’ thirty}.

So Week 16 Project Milf prompt is If you could spend one hour with anyone, past or present, who would it be and why?

I didn’t have to think twice about this person. I miss him so much and it sadness me that I didn’t know him enough. So, I would spend that one-precious-hour with my late father. He passed away when I was about two and the first memory I have of him is me trying to wake him up at his funeral. He is far memory for me. In that hour, I would like to talk to him about life and learn a little from his wisdom, something school wouldn’t teach me.

Now unto #23 of Blog Every Day In May which is to share

Things You've Learned That School Won't Teach You

that you are perfect the way you are

that loving as if there is no tomorrow is just right

that patience is the key to happiness

that success is not always rewarded with money but with cuddles and smiles

how to travel around the world and how to live life to its fullest

how beautiful and miraculous is our everyday life

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The Rant…

# 22 of Blog Everyday In May is to

Rant About Something. {Get up on your soapbox and tell us how you really feel}

The news, I can’t stand the news anymore,

not its fault but,

whenever it manages to reach me,

it weakens me to a fearful state about this world.

it pushes me to into hiding in the bubble even more

Natural disasters at the tick of the clock.

Kidnappers, bombers, murderers left and right

Mad people harming innocent people.

I had enough of all this atrocities in the world.

HARD really enough and I don’t know how we can stop that. 

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